Thursday, July 05, 2007

Time to Go "Home"...

San Francisco, CA/ Ho Chi Minh (Saigon), Vietnam

July 5, 2007

N 10°46.071
E 106°41.665

Since I had to fly through San Francisco three times during my trip to the States, I realized I needed a night in my favorite city in the world—the place I still call home. I jumped off the plane, grabbed my bags, and headed to BART, immediately excited, barely able to contain myself. I was back in San Francisco, even if it was for only 18 hours—I didn’t care.

I immediately felt obligated to help the tourists I encountered on BART trying to figure out their stop… “two more stops until your station,” I told the two Japanese girls holding their USA guide. I reminded them again when we got to Powell Street Station. I love this city I kept saying to nobody in particular after I finally reached my stop and walked down the street.

From BART I caught my “favorite” bus, the Stockton 30, at 6:00 PM the day before a holiday—as usual it was standing room only. I stood still with my large pack doing my best not to knock the people behind me off of their feet. As usual, the majority of the people got off at the two stops through Chinatown, leaving me a little room to maneuver before I exited at Washington Square Park.

The park was as perfect as always, dogs frolicking, bums napping in the sun, and mothers pushing their babies for an afternoon walk. The views of Coit Tower and St. Peter and Paul Church had me again whispering under my breath … this is the best city! I made my way down Columbus Street towards our friend Mike’s house, my home for the night, when I saw a couple tourists trying to read a map. I stopped and helped them, pointed them in the direction of the famous North Beach eateries.

I dumped off my stuff and caught up with Mike before we headed to Giordano Bros. for an All-in-One sandwich (meat, cheese, fries and slaw between two pieces of bread—pure decadence) and Buffalo wings. The live music was already playing when we walked through the doors and I saw Allison holding her beautiful six month old daughter Sadie. The last time I saw Sadie she was 15 days old, a tiny little girl in my arms; now she has a cute personality and giggled when I tickled her belly. I quickly offered to take her for awhile knowing she will be close to a year old next time I see her.

Even though my trip to San Francisco was last minute, Shelby and Dustin were available to meet me for a night in the city. I am so lucky to have such great friends. As we were waiting for Shelby, Dustin, and Dustin’s brother Casey, my good friend Virginia walked into the highly rated sandwich shop. I sent Virginia a message earlier in the day letting her know I would be in town if she had time to meet me. I was ecstatic to see her and everyone else.

We hung out at Giordano Bros. for awhile before heading to Tony Nik’s, another one of my favorite North Beach joints. As we walked to the local watering hole, the area was bustling with tourists, locals and the “bridge and tunnel” crowd. The air was crisp and I quickly put on my light sweater to stop the chill. When the night finally came to an end, I knew I couldn’t be happier with the fantastic evening I had with my friends, in my city. I wanted the evening to last forever, but since I knew I was fighting sleep—it had to come to an end.

In the morning, as the sun shinned brightly over the San Francisco skies, I had some time to grab a coffee at Café Trieste. Luckily, two of my favorite people were working—Paul and Shawn—I gave them warm hellos and goodbyes all at the same time. I had a little one-on-one time with Shelby during our caffeine fix, thanked her for being such a good friend and then she took me to the airport.

After Shelby dropped me off at the San Francisco International terminal, I reflected on my quick visit to the United States. I realized how lucky I am to have such great friends and family and how much I enjoyed my time with each of them during my stay. For some of the people, like my Dad, it included long telephone conversations we haven’t been able to share due to the high cost of international calls. For others, like Jenn, it was sharing a once in a lifetime memory as she starts her new life.

In the end, it took everything to get me back on the plane to Saigon; I felt like I was being torn away from friends and family, but the single most important person—my best friend and family—was what pushed me through and forced me to board the plane. Ten days was definitely a break in the 24x7x365, but like they say… absence makes the heart grow fonder. I am more of the opinion that time together makes us stronger... at least that has been the case to date.

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

It's Hard to Say "See You Soon"...

Phu Quoc / Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon):

July 4, 2007
N 10°46.071
E 106°41.665

Laura will be back in Ho Chi Minh City tomorrow evening. It has been strange not having her around the past week... we've been together 24x7 since January and this is the longest we've been apart. It has been hard! At the same time, I have extremely fond memories from Phu Quoc. (Pictures will follow soon, please be patient).

I spent 7 nights on the island in a very remote "resort" that had 7 very quaint bungalows ($8 per night); no hot water, electricity was sporadic at best, but the beer was always cool and the food was excellent. Best of all, I made friends I will never forget. The most notable was Ha, a 23 year old Vietnamese girl who I tutored in English for about 3 hours per day.

Over the course of the week we became very good friends. We spoke for hours about our families, friends, childhoods, dreams, religion, and of course our countries. She watched after me like I was her family and not a guest. I will be forever grateful for her friendship and extraordinary hospitality.

Below is my final story (Part III) from the time I spent on Phu Quoc:

A final cup of black coffee with with my friend.
The taste of saline as I hold back tears.
We both try to smile.
Memories of a rare friendship.

The clap of thunder breaks the silence.
Time to go.

No good-byes.
Just a quick hug, a sincere Thank You, and a treasured kiss on the neck.

The motorbike pulls away.
Tears in my eyes.
I force myself to look back.

A final snap-shot.

My friend stands alone, still waving.
See you soon.

Tuesday, July 03, 2007

Stories From The Beach (Part II)...

Westport, WA U.S.A./Phu Quoc Island, Vietnam

July 3, 2007
Phu Quoc:
N 10°11.124
E 103°57.963

Westport:
N 46°53.270
W 124°06.360

As Marc sits on the beach on a remote island in Vietnam, I am visiting my Mom in Westport, WA as she prepares for the town's 4th of July celebration. The time in the United States definitely broke up the 24x7x365, but I will be back in Saigon in two days to start it all over again!

Here is another one of Marc's stories from the beach:

Behind the gray sky the sun sets.

Waves continue to batter the shore.
Messengers of the next storm.

Twinkle of fishing boats creep across the horizon.
Their day begins.

Wet sand sticks to my feet, another cool beer please, gentle breeze.
My day comes to an end.

Monday, July 02, 2007

Wedding Bells...

San Diego, CA U.S.A./Phu Quoc Island, Vietnam

July 1, 2007

Phu Quoc:
N 10°11.124
E 103°57.963
San Diego:
N 32°43.000
W 117°09.000

I made calls from the San Diego Airport lounge filling people in on the wedding as I waited to board my flight to Seattle. I decided to make a detour to see my Mom and Jim before flying back to Vietnam to be with Marc.

The wedding the night before went off perfectly. The bride and groom exchanged their vows on the bow of the Catamaran, with Jeff Porter as the official and 45 of their friends and family watched the stunningly handsome couple. The happy bride and groom held onto the rail as they put on each other’s rings and kissed. The weather was perfect in the San Diego Harbor, the brilliant sun shining down on the full boat, making a perfect backdrop as the vows were exchanged. There were only a few bumps making some of the guests queasy, as Jenn Porter and Kris Green became Mr. and Mrs. Green.

Marc sent his congratulations from an internet café on Phu Quoc Island. He opted to avoid the very long flight and the anxiety filled days before the wedding as my main job was to keep Jenn calm. I definitely missed him during the romantic day; however, with the slightly choppy water and his weak stomach he made the right decision.

The Catamaran cruised along the bay for another two hours as the guests mingled on the boat. Dinner was served shortly after the ceremony as guests filed in and out of the galley. There were some tears as guests toasted the newlyweds, others choking up, unable to speak in front of the crowd.

As the sun set we pulled back into the dock with the happily married couple. We quickly unloaded the boat before meeting again in the Sheraton lobby bar. When it came time for the couple to leave, I embraced each of them knowing I wouldn’t see them again before my flight. I started to tear up a little bit, but controlled myself.

I was very happy I made it back for the special day. I know it meant a lot to Jenn and Kris, but it also meant a lot to me to see my best friend marry such a wonderful guy—knowing they will live happily ever after.